Monday, November 26, 2012

Early Hours of the Morning

The shroud of fog moved into the Bay area in the night...and in the early hours of the morning a young lady lost her battle with cancer.


Eighteen months ago, she was standing on the beach in Santa Barbara with a few girls from the track and field team.The girls walked down the beach in the warm sunshine with the waves lapping at their feet.


Before we reluctantly bid the beach farewell, the girls posed for one last photo!


Then they tumbled into the suburban for the trek home.

Nancy was 17 years old and a senior in high school with a vivacious personality.

My heart aches for a young life cut short...for her dreams...for her family...for her friends.

Amidst the sadness, I am thankful she touched my life...to remind me to live with courage and zeal.







Sunday, November 25, 2012

My Hubby

Thanksgiving morning found my hubby relaxin' and chattin'.


Of course, all good things must come to an end!  Then he donned the traditional turkey apron and started carvin' the turkey!


The next day brought us to Mount Lassen for some wintry fun!  The daredevil took a tumble,


but he recovered in hot dog style!



A wonderful Thanksgiving weekend wrapped up with a birthday...today.  Happy Birthday!  I love you!

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

My Grandpa

*A 12 year old grandson had to select a family member to write about using a metaphor as part of a family research project.  In his words...


       My grandfather is like the big old red barn.   First he was born and raised on the farm just like the barn. Throughout the years of hard work from sunrise to sunset, he has gotten stronger. With his years of hard work with the sheep trying to keep them safe from the coyotes and wolves, he has become very clever like the barn’s hay loft . He has survived the prairie storms throughout the years just like the barn for almost 100 years. He is also like a weather vane when we are lost in the parking lot or when the girls are lost in the mall parking lot. He knows exactly where we are like the south forty. 
One of my favorite things is all of the great-great memories they both hold. It is like having the best thing ever. I mean both are filled with doors and behind each one you can open there is a hidden treasure—like my mom’s old bike or grandpa sharing the best places for boys to play.
My grandfather isn’t old. Neither is the barn. I just think with all the years of hard work, he worked the color out of his hair, and now it matches the trim on the barn. For the people who do call him old, they don’t know all the different opportunities there are in that great heart of his. His arms will always open as wide as the barn doors, even if it may harm him. His arms will bring anyone in because he has just as much room in his heart, like the big old red barn. 
So to conclude this, my Grandfather’s spirit and soul will always be there even if he or the barn isn’t. He will be in the fields of the farm and in the blowing dust traveling across the prairie. He always has something to do or somewhere to go. He is amazing and no one can top him!!! 


Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Sunday Morning

My Sunday morning pews are a bit cold some days--though the hockey action generally warms up quickly.

Slowly I have figured out the basics of the game, so I tried to capture a few images.  I discovered sports photography is tougher than it looks!

Skating backwards Kade keeps an eye on the puck, preparing for defensive action.



Speedy Gonzales is often the first to reach an errant puck.


Skating down the ice he is ready to receive the pass.


My favorite player is small but persistent as he navigates the ice.


Face to face with the goalie means skillful execution is the only way to make a goal in a breakaway.


Kade maintains control of the puck under attack.


Ready.


And he chips--the puck flies through the air over the opponents. (Look closely)





I love to watch the action (as long as I am dressed in layers)!  



Friday, November 9, 2012

*yawn*

Into the wee hours of the night, I searched for clues to my children's family history.  Intrigued by the bits and pieces I found, I kept looking and scribbling notes to myself.

Genealogy is definitely a tedious process.  An occasional birthdate or year to help expand the search is a celebration, and it may take hours to unearth that one clue.  Patience is mandatory.

At midnight though, I hit the jackpot.  I followed the link to a grave searching for dates for my husband's great- great grandfather.  There was an article attached from the Lead newspaper regarding the events of December 27, 1907.  Rauvala had fallen down the shaft to his death (all details of the investigation included).  He had only arrived a year earlier.  He left an expecting wife and small child almost destitute.  The Finnish Temperance Hall would take care of arrangements.

He rests in the Lead cemetery in an unmarked grave.

The young couple immigrated from Finland around 1905.  When they landed in Massachusetts their first daughter was born, and they immediately set out for Dakota territory.

A young couple taking a chance in life--trying to make a better life.  I, too, once was a young miner's wife, so I felt a powerful connection to this young widow that would soon have two little girls.  She would work hard her entire life--the mine employed her as a "janitress" according to the census.  I suspect that it was their feeble attempt to keep the family of the man who died in their mine fed.  Then she would supplement her meager income by ironing for the office employees.

The story haunted me, so I woke Ron up to tell him the story.  He groggily responded before drifting off to sleep again.  Of course, the next morning he called wanting to know what I had said :)

As I shared the story with our children, Kade immediately responded, "We need to mark his grave."

Me?  I want to spend a couple days in Lead unearthing the rest of the family story.  I want to sit in the library and pour over the newspaper.  I want to find the mine employment records--not just for great-great- grandfather, but on the other branch of my husband's family for a great-grandfather and grandfather.  Of course, my husband started mining there too--though unaware of the full family history.  Mining brought his family to America and Dakota Territory.

I want to find that unmarked grave too...and the one of his daughter that died in her 30s...and the matriarch that outlived them.

I want to walk on the street where they lived.

I want to honor the immigration legacy of hardship and tragedy by pausing to remember and teach my children from whence they came.

Friday, November 2, 2012

End of a Season

The last water polo game of the season was played this week.

The team played tough even though their opponents were rough.  At half-time the score was 5-6.

It was a great game.

Afterwards, the girls were all smiles--they had played their hearts out for this senior game...for the two girls that helped build the emerging water polo team.

Even though not a game was won the entire season.

After the game, as I drove home I had a lump in my throat as I thought back to their first game.  Each girl grew stronger and stronger as the season progressed--and therein lies their success.  A small team quickly becomes family!  It was Nikela's first season--she had so much to learn at the beginning, but she finished having learned so much!  Not to mention the new friendships she forged!

Proud of all the girls...proud of my daughter.

Watch Nikela (#9) in this video from the final game.  Don't miss her goal!


Thursday, November 1, 2012

My Ghouls

Since my children were little I have affectionately called them "my monsters".  The nickname was inspired by Sesame Street and the furry little monsters that captured their attention.

My monsters transform themselves on Halloween.

First was Chayse's mommy inspired costume for the school parade.


Later the tough hockey girl was transformed into a ghoulish china doll for trick or treating with her big sister.



The trio before departure--full of smiles despite their ghoulish appearance.  Nikela's friend good-naturedly embraced our Halloween traditions--even "gutting" her first pumpkin!


Love this moment.


My rocker sported his drum sticks with style!



He completely rocked the 80s.


Kiahra was MIA when the camera came out, but she sported her Steeler spirit with attitude which is rather ghoulish in 49er country!


In the rain of the evening, the freshly carved jack-o-lanterns glowed as the ghost hovered in the window.



In the morning drizzle, Kade noticed a snail that had found shelter in his pumpkin sometime in the night.