Tuesday, December 17, 2013

London. Take 3.


Late for breakfast, but once our bellies were full, we were ready to go!

The Underground Tube was our transportation decision for the day, so we purchased our all day pass and descended into the maze.  The trains were running frequently, but people lined the platform, so our ride was cozy!

When we emerged, Parliament and Westminster Abbey in their architectural splendor stood before us.





In 960 Westminster Abbey became the home to Benedictine Monks.  One hundred years later it became the coronation church where 17 monarchs would eventually be crowned.  Though in 1245 the building of the present church was started by Henry III.  The Gothic building has become one of the most important places in the country.  And here I stood with the opportunity to walk where kings and queens have trod.


The extensive history within the Abbey fascinates me.  I knew that it was final resting place for many royal people throughout history--particularly kings and queens; however, I was unprepared for the number of people buried here--over 3,000.  As we walked down the first hallway from the visitor's entrance, I scanned the inscriptions, and the first name I recognized was Charles Darwin.  Then the tomb of the unknown British soldier on the floor surrounded by poppies made me pause, and at that moment a morning prayer was offered and we bowed our heads as we listened.  An unforgettable moment.

Sir Isaac Newton's monument was in front of the choir screen near his grave. Then I stood in the center of the choir room wishing I could hear the voices of the famous choir fill the massive church.

We meandered through the royal tombs and monuments before reaching Geoffery Chaucer's tomb.  Strange to read the inscription of a man whose works I have studied extensively and with admiration.  He was the first in what would become the poet's corner.  (The photo is of an Abbey courtyard inserted here to break up the monotony for those of you not quite as passionate about English literature and poetry.)


Many poets and writers are buried at Westminster Abbey.  Tennyson, John Dryden, Thomas Hardy, Rudyard Kipling, and Dr. Samuel Johnson, whom I also admire, rest in the Abbey.  And after walking the streets of London, the words of Charles Dickens, one of my favorite authors, were on my mind when I paused at his grave here which was merely inscribed with his name and time on earth.  It was as he wished, and for it I respect him even more.  (Though in fairness to Chaucer who was also a voice for the downtrodden, I should mention that a plain slab marked his tomb before the marble monument was made in his honor 150 years later.)

Memorialized (but buried elsewhere) in the Poet's Corner are many other great English writers and poets~ Shakespeare, Wordsworth, Shelley, Austen, and Bronte are a just a few.  As I stood in the Poet's corner, my English teacher's heart was overwhelmed...and grateful to stand in this the place I never dreamed I would have the opportunity to see.



Afterwards we strolled over to the Cabinet War Rooms.  In the weeks before Britain joined WWII, concrete was pumped beneath the Whitehall building to create the war rooms.  The concrete was nearly three metres thick and reinforced with steel, and how they maintained secrecy during this job is still unknown, but the rooms remained secret until after the war.  Interestingly, there were rooms within the war rooms that were secret to those who worked and lived there too.

Churchill's rhetoric was powerful, and as an admirer, it was fun to walk down the halls and view the rooms where he did his most famous negotiating and work.

The famous red telephone booths still dot the streets~much to my delight!


Seriously, the phone never stops ringing for Ron--but even in London?


After attempting to absorb more history than one could possibly digest that morning, we were famished.  Luckily we found a little English pub nearby (these folks anticipate the need for food and drink on every corner), and ducked in--and down to the basement where lunch was served.  I had the best stew served with mashed potatoes--it was my favorite pub fare of the trip!


Rejuvenated, we found our way back to the subway with Covent Gardens as our destination.  Covent Gardens was the first modern public square in London dating back to the 17th century.  Covent originally was interpreted as monastery or convent.  Perhaps the name stems from the time when the area belonged to Westminster Abbey and it was walled off so they could use the land and orchards (resulting in gardens?).  The history that followed makes me smile, as today it is known as a theater district, and the old fruit and vegetable market area now houses retail stores, including the largest apple store in the world.  Did I forget to mention the prostitutes and pubs that also resided there a hundred years ago or so?

Anyway, we reached our Covent Gardens subway stop and started walking...and walking...and stopping and reading the map...and walking...and then walking back the way we came.  We circled Covent Gardens, but we finally found it!


In the transportation museum we discovered the tunneling history of London noted in my Take 1 entry. When we stepped outside again it was evening.  The street musicians were playing--loved the string quartet playing Christmas music.  An entertainer was gathering a crowd in front of St. Paul's Church--referred to as the actors' church.  Here we entered the church courtyard and the simple church erected centuries before.

Did I mention the cobblestone streets?  They are unlike anything in America.  The rough surface is picturesque, but not functionally as friendly for walking.

Finally as the day disappeared, we sought out the subway station as the evening crowd milled around all the entertainers in the streets beneath the glow of the theatre lights.

Back at the hotel, the weary travelers opted to dine in the hotel restaurant and began the task of repacking.

In the morning, we were up early and finished packing in plenty of time.  We were ready to go home. We caught a cab ride back to the airport.  Enjoying our final views of London, we buzzed through the maze of streets in the infamous little black cab, grateful we weren't driving.

At the airport, I discovered the British version of Harry Potter that I thought the kids might enjoy.  Having never read the books myself and with renewed appreciation for London, I thought it would be a fun family read!

It was a 30 minute walk to our gate, but no worries, we could sit for 10.5 hours after we boarded!  Tapping turkeys kept us entertained at the gate~the British mocking our crazy American customs.


But all mocking aside, a fantastic meal awaited us at home in California with friends and family gathered round.

A perfect ending.

Thursday, December 5, 2013

London. Take 2.

I rose early and soaked my feet.

At breakfast, I sipped my tea and watched as men carried the all the Christmas trees around the hotel.

Afterwards, we strolled through Hyde Park in the brisk morning air.  The winter carnival sat quietly in sharp contrast to the hum and lights of the previous evening.

At the lakeshore, we watched the fat ducks and swans.


The trees were turning colors and the leaves were falling gently to the ground.  

A modern arch framed Kensington Palace in the distance.  The palace was built in 1689 and is still used by royal families.  Princess Diana resided there until her death.

As we meandered down the path we reached the fountains--a beautiful maze of flowing water with a jutting medieval tower where large haunting birds were perched.

Soon we were back on Oxford street being enticed to shop by the elaborately decorated store fronts.

At every intersection "look right" and "look left" are stamped on the ground to remind American tourists that the traffic flow is different in London.  As the cars zipped down the street my sense of self preservation adapted quickly.

The British signs made me smile too.  I found their labels very literal.  

Lift = Elevator
Toilet = Restroom
Way In = Entrance
Way Out = Exit
Tube/Underground = Subway
Mind your step = Watch your step
Disabled Toilet = Handicapped Restroom
Carriage = Taxi
Give Way = Yield

Returning to the hotel at midmorning, my husband donned his suit in preparation for the awards luncheon.  By 11:30 AM champagne was being circulated amidst the gathering crowd.  Soon we were ushered into the ballroom.  The ornate room was dimly lit with massive sparkling chandeliers.  Tables covered with white tablecloths and gleaming with silverware and glasses filled the column lined room.  There were as many glasses as pieces of silverware at each setting (in other words lots of each).  The appetizers arrived and the accompanying wine was poured, and when the plate was swept away I was down one fork and one glass.  The entree was accompanied by another wine.  Then dessert...and another wine.  Then came the trays of meat, cheese, and olives.  And another tray of sweets.  In the meantime, the international tunneling presentation rolled forward.  The Bay Tunnel was highly commended a.k.a. runner-up/second place--a great accomplishment!  Per the invitation, carriage time was 5 PM.

The Bay Tunnel group was headed to dinner later at a nearby pub, and we tried to join them, unsuccessfully, as they were no where to be seen; however, a second door farther down the street opened to a staircase and another dining room (not accessible from the inside of the pub).  Thinking we failed to find the right location, we roamed back down Oxford street where my favorite Christmas lights twinkled overhead.

"City sidewalks, busy sidewalks...It's Christmas time in the city."  We explored the British department stores and found a few things to take home to the kids--who were never far from our minds.  By 9 PM the stores started to close and we walked back to our hotel, exhausted.

That elusive sleep came more easily--until the telephone rang!  It was 8:30 AM and we were late for breakfast! 

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

London. Take 1.

In 1841 the tunnel beneath the Thames River in London was finally completed.  It was the first known tunnel beneath a body of water.  In 1869 it was purchased by the underground railway and the steam trains immediately started rolling through it.  It still remains part of the underground system today.



Thus I arrived in London 172 years later for the International Tunneling Awards with my tunneling husband.

Wintry gray skies greeted us as the plane taxied down the runway.  Soon we would be piling into the "carriage" and cruising down the wrong side of the road into the city.



Darkness was rapidly descending when the doorman in his top hat and long, tailed coat greeted us at our hotel, so we made a quick change and walked to Oxford street which was bustling with shoppers.  Hungry, we dove into the first restaurant we found.  It was a lucky find, as the Italian fare was utterly delightful!



Later in the evening, we stepped inside our first pub--welcoming the warmth.  Wooden planks lined the floor and hues of red and gold adorned the walls and elaborate drapes hung round the windows.  Though the cozy room was filled with people, voices merely murmured around us--very different than noisy American restaurants and bars.  Pubs are oft referred to as gathering houses, and it was obvious that drinking was not the primary purpose of the patrons.

Back at the hotel, we tried to sleep during the hours we generally are awake--very tricky!

Early the next morning, the adventure began on the Red Bus Tour where we were perched at the top of the double decker bus in the front row which granted us great views of London.  Our guide sat with us, as we were the only patrons for the first hour.  We listened closely to his stories, as we adjusted to the British accent.  We rolled by all the famous scenes of London.


The curved street and buildings exemplified the adaptions of a city settled long ago before roads were filled with cars. 


In Trafalger Square, we saw the Blue Rooster which a female sculpture contributed to offset all the military statues.  She is appealing to the British sense of humor, as the blue color and the animal represent France.  Trafalger Square is named after the 1805 Battle of Trafalger when Britain defeated France.

Falconry keeps the pigeons at bay in the square--and a fine of £500 for feeding the birds.


We stepped off the bus at Buckingham Palace and joined the throngs of people outside the palace gates.    The horse guard trotted down the road.




After snapping a few photos, we walked down the sidewalk towards the pier. Ron noticed the horse guard lining up a few blocks away, so we detoured and watched the changing of the horse guard.





We resumed walking to the pier and waited for our ferry ride to the Tower of London.  The deep voice of Big Ben began to reverberate above us--twelve times.



From the river Thames, we drifted by the London Eye, the Globe, the oldest pub, and as our ride drew nigh we had a spectacular view of the Tower Bridge.

Debarking at the pier, we walked up to the Tower of London. The castle maze started with the original structure in the center erected in 1080.  The massive stone rooms were cold and grey.  The stairs wound up the towers.  Walking along the outer castle walls overlooking the moat, we could survey the area.  We were treading over 933 years of history and where the kings and queens had trod.  The tower aptly named, the Bloody Tower, had final words etched in the stones from prisoners before they met their fate--reminded us of barbaric times in history.  Juxtaposed nearby were the Crown Jewels.  A massive display of Knights' Armor--including some that belonged to the kings that once lived at the tower of London.  Growing weary, we stopped to dine at the Raven's Kiosk.  Charles II decreed that six ravens should always guard the Tower of London otherwise, according to legend, the white tower will fall and  terrible disaster will befall England.  Nonetheless, the warm pot pie gave us strength to carry on our journey!

The outer castle walls appear to be lined with crosses--my impression that it was religious protection was quickly corrected when I learned that they are accesses for archers to protect the castle.


Wearily we trudged to the bus stop as the sun started to slip lower in sky.

For dinner we enjoy fish and chips at nearby pub, as I sipped on my first glass of mulled wine.

Hotel. Sweet. Hotel.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Driver II

A driving permit has been issued for Kiahra.

Two weeks ago she passed her written test (with none to spare).

One week ago she survived her first professional driving lesson.

Now she is legal to drive with us.

She drove around yesterday afternoon with her father.  They found errands to keep themselves entertained.

She came home smiling.

How did my baby girl go from crawling to driving so quickly?

That reminds me...Kiahra stood before she walked.  She could stand up in the middle of the room and play, but she would not take a step.  No way.

When she wanted to cover ground she crawled. She decided she was ready to take her first steps several months later.  Of course, she already had balance so those first steps were rather uneventful.

She doesn't clamor to drive, and she is cautious, but soon she will be driving comfortably.

It will take me longer to accept this rite of passage...


for I remember her "helping" her daddy

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Reflection




From the wharf, Nikela and I watched the seals swimming in the Santa Cruz waters.

Her senior year is causing me to pause and reflect often.

On this day, it was the last time she would march along the beach in Santa Cruz.

Afterwards, we enjoyed lunch on the wharf, as we watched the sailboats from our table window.

Conversation moved from the present to the future and back again.

Water polo. 

College applications.

Scholarships opportunities.

Explorer police academy.

Four years ago we moved to California.

She was a mere freshman back then.

After graduation we will move...again.

But these years have been good.

We reflect on all our memories with smiles and laughter.

We pause when the nostalgia makes our voices catch.

Change is hard.

Like our reflection, life's journey is constantly changing.

But each moment forms us, and for this moment I reflect with gratitude.









Thursday, October 24, 2013

Sailing

"Kiahra, is mom around?"

"No, she said she was going to the bank to get money to buy a sailboat."

"What?"

"Maybe you should call her, dad."

A few moments later my cell phone was ringing.

It all started when Kade was checking out the garage sale around the corner.  A 10-foot sailboat was sitting on the lawn with the sail flapping in the breeze.

A boy's dream come true.

He learned to sail at boy scout camp, and since then he has been obsessed with sailing.

First he turned on the charm, as he politely inquired about the little boat.  By the time, he walked away, I think the lady would have given the boat to him.  However, a mere $50 dollars would buy him the boat.

Next he returned home with a "sails" pitch especially for me.

I had seen the boat the day before, and I had anticipated him spotting it on his way home from school, but he didn't because they had put it away already.  I mistakenly thought it was sold.

Reluctantly, I meandered over to the garage sale with my son.  The lady told me she would sell if for $35 to Kade--"He is a great kid...blah, blah, blah..."

I told her I would go get some cash, so Kade could buy the boat.

Before I was even back, the man of the house was out showing Kade all the "ropes" of his new sailboat.  He patiently instructed the boys (yes, by this time Kade already had a friend from the neighborhood ready to try sailing) and threw in a few extra items including a lifejacket and a sailboat guide.

I handed the lady $60 and told her I didn't need change.

With his dad at work, Kade was impatient to try the boat, but I told him he had to wait.  Luckily for him, his dad came home an hour later--I think he was still worried about what we were up to!

Anyway, a little silicon touched up the cracks, and soon we were loading the sailboat into the truck with a couple kayaks.

Did I mention my son said he would rather get a sailboat than go to Halloween Haunt at the amusement park with his friends?  He spent the late afternoon on the water instead.


The wind was strong.  The rudder was not working properly in the beginning, but with a few adjustments, Kade made it work.  We circled in the kayaks keeping an eye on the boys--and the entertainment was plentiful!


Cruising across the water looked so fun!

Until...



Actually the video quality is better at http://youtu.be/wHbzhBpl_xw







Friday, October 11, 2013

Flag Football

Football.  
Boys push each other around and throw a ball.  And it takes a long time when you are freezing in the bleachers.

Frankly, I did not understand the game in high school.  

Then I married a man who loves football.  I still didn't get it.  
Then we moved to Pittsburgh.  I tried harder to understand the game as my hubby and kids joined the Steelers football mania.  

I slowly started to grasp the general idea of the game.

But nothing teaches you a game like watching your son play.


#20 keeps an eye on the action as his dad lends a helping hand.


Ready to spring into action. 


Flag football requires two hand blocking.


As the cleats dig into the dirt, muscles strain and the battle is on!



His last game he had a 10 yard run and several good blocks.  He played offense on the first string.

And he came home grinning because boys like to chase the football and push each other around.

I am "getting" the concept now, but the bleacher seats are still cold.





Friday, October 4, 2013

Do not fly with me.  Ever.

At first, it may seem harmless, as the flight boards and takes off early.  We may even soar through the skies uneventfully for the first few hours.

However, the plane may be diverted due to a thunderstorm in Dallas, and then it will land in Oklahoma City and sit on the runway for nearly 4 hours.  (Yes, I know the FDA requires deboarding after 3 hours, but who wants to get off when there are no connecting flights to your destination?)

Eventually, we will be cleared for landing in Dallas, so the plane will take off again and an hour later arrive.

At this point, the last connecting flight left hours ago, and it is too late to route through Atlanta or Detroit because it will be too late to connect there either.

"The 8:45 AM flight has seats available."

That translates into 14 hours overnight at the Dallas airport unless I want to catch a cab and find a hotel.

Next option?

I check all the flights into neighboring cities: Nashville, Indianapolis, St. Louis.  St. Louis has a seat for me, so St. Louis it is.

Of course this flight is delayed another hour, but eventually it does take off.

Upon landing I find the rental car agency at 10:30 PM.  I do not get the deal of the century on a rental car, but now I no longer care.  I started this trek 13 1/2 hours ago.

Then I drive into the night for nearly 3 hours.  I have never been so happy to see my sister's house.

Thus a 7 hour flight plan translates into 16.5 hours.

So.  Do not fly with me.  Ever.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

2,513

The road home always tends to be longer, as the miles stretch into the horizon, but we had one more stop that helped make the trip easier.


Home.






The familiar gravel roads where I learned to drive.  Grandpa took Kiahra out for a drive on those same roads, but she got to drive his new truck.  Enough said.




That familiar country makes my heart sing.






The sun set gloriously across the lake.





The only place that has stayed the same in my kids' world--never living in a place more than 4 years.








The hours slipped away quickly, but we enjoyed every minute to the fullest (well, except for all the laundry).








Cousins + Farm = nonstop adventure





...creating memories that will last a lifetime.





A little tractor time that elicits the reality that mom raked hay as a kid!




And the bittersweet moment when we pull out of the driveway back to California.

Our oldest daughter quietly acknowledging that as she prepares for the next steps of her journey she may not be back soon.


Looking back is not where I want to live, but sometimes looking ahead is hard, so it is a reminder to enjoy the present.  It is the one lesson my kids have learned in their journey--to sieze the moment.  They don't take moments shared with family and friends for granted.




Thursday, September 12, 2013

We made it!

Several hours after we left Memphis, we arrived in Indiana, but not without a wrong turn.  I thought the GPS was wrong somewhere in Kentucky, but I got a good look at the road...twice and lost a few miles in the meantime only to discover I was wrong!

The kids were giddy about this destination.  They excitedly anticipated meeting their new cousin and the rapidly growing bug that visited us last year!


The newest addition charmed his cousins quickly, and he didn't argue about all the lovin' and totin' he got!


In the warm Indiana evening, we roasted marshmallows with little k.  We discovered she has an affinity for the chocolate bar in the smore :)  As the light waned into night, the fireflies emerged for catching and then a game of hide and seek ensued.  I think she liked her first "taste" of camping.


Jaxon chilled by the campfire with Kade.  He loved being outside!


Most of the kids...and all looking at the camera!!


It was hard to capture this bug, as she moves quickly these days!


Generally she is a blur--like in this photo, but this moment was charming to watch with the smiles and squeals of delight!


Kade wanted one more photo with his buddy--love those smiles!

Uncle Kevin also took the gang to the lake.  The day was perfect as the water sparkled in the warm sunshine.  The boat entertained the older kids (yes, even the big boys too), as they embraced the tubing challenges!  On shore the water was warm and shallow--perfect for little girls!  It was a great day!

Then...it was time to go again...this time back towards home.

A quietness settled over the Suburban for a couple hours, as good-byes settled heavily on our hearts.

Little did we know that a few days later a a pretty home on a wooded corner lot with a small lake in the backyard would catch our eye via the internet!