Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Birthday Moments





Friends make birthdays special!



Because they always cheer you on faithfully!



A special delivery from Nikela's best friend--a Portuguese cake!


Patiently waiting...well, still working on the patient part!



Hummm...


Different personalities?  Undoubtably!


Nikela's favorite ice-cream cake--her once a year treat!


The birthday whirlwind ceases for another year!  The laughter and smiles will echo in our hearts forever!

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

16.

Sweet sixteen.

 It brings so much.

 A driver license.

 Maybe a summer job.

 Upper classman rank this fall.

 Dreams of scuba diving.

 Somewhere the years have slipped through my fingers like sand, and my little girl has grown into a young lady with a radiant smile that lights up her face (and gets us outstanding service from young waiters).

The mischievous twinkle in her eyes as she quietly and sarcastically adds her two cents--I have seen that before too! A long time ago a dear family friends commented that she was serious as a baby--because even then she could keep a straight face!

Her gentle heart attracts kids...and occasionally surfaces with her siblings, as yesterday she took her free track pass for her birthday a day early...so she could celebrate her sister's birthday that she missed last year due to a track meet.  Today she will run at practice--on her own birthday.  My little sweetheart who always generously shared her hugs and love...still does.

The years may continue to slip through my fingers, but I am grateful today to pause and wish my oldest daughter Happy 16th Birthday!

Monday, April 23, 2012

14 Years Ago...



We welcomed Kiahra to the family. Here her big sister was meeting her for the first time in the safety of Grandpa's arms.

Now she is officially registered for high school this fall. She is flying alone this summer. She is a ballet soloist in the upcoming performance.

My little girl is growing into a young woman, but that reality squeezes my throat and makes my eyes fill with tears...not because I am not proud of her today...I am...but because she is beginning to spread her wings and I know someday (sooner than I want) she will begin her solo flights away from the nest.

Today I will just hold her tight as the memories roll over me, so it is only suiting we will dine ocean front this evening. I will treasure every moment beside the roar of the waves because too soon it will only be a very fond memory!

Friday, April 20, 2012



Last night my youngest daughter drew my portrait. She asked me what color my hair was, and I told her I couldn't see it, so she would have to color what she saw.

A little later she brought me the picture proudly proclaiming she used all the colors in my hair--"brown, blonde...and, see mom? I even used a little grey!"

Then she pointed to my hair and continued, "See mom, there it is, right there!"

"Yes..." I conceded reluctantly, as she scampered away. As I finished making dinner, I pondered this, wondering why she couldn't have left it out--after all I don't wear blue eyeshadow, ever!? Or at least she could have found a pretty silver crayon that sparkles...so I could at least feel valuable?

Later, I found her completed masterpiece on the shelf with the message added. Sweetness that completely melts my heart and erases the grey ponderings!

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Waiting, waiting, waiting...

A little girl at my house has been dreaming of the day she could wear earrings.

Well, the day finally arrived.

Daddy captured the moment on video here.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Picture Perfect

The vibrant pink, yellow, green, blue and purple curved across the sky in spectacular greeting this morning. The storm clouds were dissipating replaced with fluffy white puffs, as the blue sky peeked through. In the morning sun, the full rainbow stretched my imagination with a beauty unparalleled in my memory.

As we gathered around the table last night for our late supper with the familiar banter of the kids' voices, suddenly the lightening flashed and thunder rolled. Silence. Eyes wide and sparkling with delight, ears were intently listening again. The rumble came again followed by shrieks of delight. Thunderstorms are rare in California, but to the kids it is the sound of all their homes...Pennsylvania, Montana, Minnesota, and South Dakota. As the rain poured so did their memories from across the country...literally--even recalling the storms that we encountered in our cross-country road trip.

The storm show was spectacular lasting most of the night. My oldest daughter even wrapped herself in a blanket and curled on the couch in the dark, watching the show from the window in silence...enjoying the sounds and sights of home...

And no pictures...only in the heart.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Memory Lane



"That's it! That's my grandfather's store!"

The undeniable enthusiasm in the voice brought a smile to my face. At 96, Fred generally isn't real excitable.

The dawn of the day brought warm sunshine and pale blue skies, and a roadtrip to the Sacramento Delta region.

Here the Sacramento and San Jaoquin rivers meet and form a large marshland that is also fed from San Pablo Bay--North of San Francisco Bay, thus creating a mix of fresh and salt waters. This inverted delta (fifth largest in the world) covers 738,000 acres.

During the gold rush, people began settling the region and creating levees to take advantage of the rich soil beneath the marshes. It is some of the finest cropland in the country.

The thousand miles of levees were no small undertaking and required years of work and the expertise of the Chinese immigrants whose water management skills were finely honed in their homeland.

As a merchant, Fred's grandfather established a general store in Courtland serving the needs of one of the many small communities along the delta. Now I am trying to uncover when he arrived. My rough estimate would be the late 1870s, so this store has been standing for a few years now!

"It is quite a thrill to see the store still standing."

Fred never knew his grandfather, but the roots here are deep. As a teenager, he would spend his summers here in the orchards picking pears. I believe the family he worked for were descendants of his grandfather's store partner.

Amidst the ever changing world, Fred first travelled up the delta as a child by boat and as a young man by bridges and roads.

The years roll by like his first new car, a 1938 Plymouth, and he shakes his head at the approaching 75th anniversary of the Golden Gate Bridge, but...

Memory lane wraps us in the familiar and brings us the comfort and warmth of an old quilt. Just as a decrepit old building brings a nostalgic, gentle smile to a face lined with living and another smile to a writer delighted by the discovery and anxious to learn the story amidst the weathered lines.

Friday, April 6, 2012

Campfire



As the sun rolled out of sight, the night was calm and quiet--except the kids clamoring for a campfire.

The stillness came again as we all sat around the little fire and watched the flames flicker and jump into the darkness.

The kids sat peacefully looking for the perfect roasting spot and enjoying the sticky sweetness of melted marshmallows.

The quiet of the night permeated the spirit and in the flickering light voices softened and murmured about moments in the day or in the past or in the future.

Here wrapped in the familiar comfort of our family, we paused and listened from the heart. A gift of the campfire.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Go Fly a Kite

Ready, set...Run!



Let go on cue and parrot takes off!



Maintaining momentum is crucial to a good flight!



The gusty winds made flying a kite from the ground tricky, but with lots of perseverance and ingenuity Kade did manage to keep his feet on the ground and send parrot high in the sky!



In the final scene of Mary Poppins, Mr. Banks begins,

"With tuppence for paper and strings
You can have your own set of wings
With your feet on the ground
You're a bird in a flight
With your fist holding tight
To the string of your kite

Oh, oh, oh!
Let's go fly a kite
Up to the highest height!
Let's go fly a kite and send it soaring
Up through the atmosphere
Up where the air is clear
Oh, let's go fly a kite!"

And in the end everything is as it should be!


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Later in the evening, our eyes were cast downward when Kade discovered the infamous banana slug along the trail.



Handsome little fellow, huh?!?

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Spring Break



My boys love to bike.



As I joined them on the oceanside trek, I had no idea that the spectacular views would take my breathe away!



The cliff-top trail rises nearly 50 feet above the shoreline.



The rugged, raw beauty juts into the skyline!



My oldest boy can't resist showing off for me--even after all these years! He still makes my heart flutter!



Nature frames the celestial moment.



Then the pure power of the ocean roars in the giant swells--15-20 feet high!



The high surf relentlessly pounded the shoreline...



leaving the foamy residual blowing on the shore.

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Behind the scenes on the trail, the recent rains left slimy mud and puddles behind. Apprehensively, I embraced the experience though every cell of my being wanted to avoid the muddy mess my boys so willing embraced; however, I slowly adapted to trail riding and in the end arrived home mud splattered and smiling. We tumbled off our bikes and into the camper for the warm supper Kiahra had waiting for us.

April 1

My brother loved this day! He plotted all year long to fine tune the perfect pranks.

I still remember the morning he woke me up and convinced me we didn't have school because there was a South Dakota blizzard in the night. I ran to the kitchen window to find the sun shining and a beautiful spring morning marking the departure of March like a lamb....and me...merely an April Fool!

Obviously, I found this day merely an official day to torment your sister--now honestly, what brother really needs that kind of license, even for one day?